I am an American, and I loathe our dishonest bigoted hatemonger of a president. I voted against him, as did the majority of the US population. Trust me when I say he does not speak for us. He is a walking mistake.
As regards sex scenes - I don’t mind them, but they’re not what my stories are about. I might have one or two in a book, at most. Sometimes they’re necessary to establish a character’s position in the milieux or with respect to some other, whether that other is a lover or an abuser or both.
If they’re BAD sex scenes - the kind that make the people in them feel awful rather than joyful - I precede them with a warning.
A chapter title can be a reasonable warning, IMO; in my current book there’s a chapter named “Sexual Violence” for example, which a fair number of readers would be well advised to skip.